Topic which is deeply related to the childhood .Everyone without knowing the meaning of the word Bullying they might have came across in it .you may be the bullied person ,person who bullies or you may one among the person who just watch this but ever thought about the mental condition of the boy/girls who is really embarrassed in front of others.
Even Man/Woman they might have seen or felt during there early stages of your life .They might been bullied for no reason others that being weak (Following Human Ethics).
Bullying is seen as a fun play in most of the schools /colleges and even workplaces .person who respect others are seen comedians and others is seen as a stud/hero.Some are neutral they will be neither bullying nor bullied by fails to help others in their toughest times.A real fun part is even teachers see the bullied person as the comedian and will not be given any self respect .
Now we will see the some story ,this is about a boy named Goodman who was been bullied by butch of fools only because he is fat and calm.this story goes long back to the time during this adolescence bullied for 5 Years
Every who studied in school should be able to connect to this character in some way.This is about his suffering for 5 years and affects in his life.
Goodman was a normal child who uses to be talkative,obese ,calm and person with some moral ethics .he belong to a upper middle class family with one sister .he was the elder kid among the both hence he used to given more care ,love and protection than the other.Now comes the devil part of his life school .a word which frightens the shit out of him .
He was not the bright kid their parents want to be so he was not given respect among the relatives or the teachers.They used to say Teachers are noble profession but not in this story .Like every other families he was also compared with his sister as she is a topper of the school .
Ever wondered why every bully’s will the topper or the last benchers.
In school right from the prayer to the last bell even during urine he was bullied.he was been bullied in all the ways possible. I have listed the some below like teasing ,name calling,telling other students not to be friend with him,dumping garbage /spitting in his desk and beating .even his father was been trolled in front of him .(Only thing which every child should protect )
Just imagine you are in the situation and above said things happens to you What will be your reaction ?
Yes, you can really relate to this .
Just travel back in time during your school time .You might be either the victim or the other one. If you are the victim you will be in a anger which cannot be measured as it will be either a thought to kill him/her in a bad way or to beat in him. Or if you are the bully ,you will be felling bad for him and about yourself that is adulting .if not better consult a good psychiatrist as something is wrong with you.
Ever thought of the psychological impact in the victim.Rape is not only big crime bullying too.
If you have clearly read the above para ,you must have realised the impact ,yes I have mentioned earlier in the above paragraph. Try understanding it yourself
Ok We will see you might seems a word feel like killing just relate to the character of the boy which I said earlier . Calm ,Well behaved to Killing ,Beating. Now you can see the psychological impact of the victims .His whole Human behaviour is been destroyed,even after this many years he have the vengeance .
Now we will see the academic side as he was the victim he was too depressed in school like wise he was stressed in house.so obviously he was too bad at education because of some this whole life was screwed .
Years past by now he is brave but with no moral value.
Now thing of a situation in reverse ,like every behaves like human .there will be no victim ,no regrets and no angers .
You might made a person a man
you might have made him brave
you might have made him happy
You might made a real friend
You might have changed persons life
Realising our mistakes is good but Not making mistake is better
Coming back to the real purpose of the story ,just be human not animal and if you have done some mistake just ask sorry even he/she is angry which you ,they will be happy
Parental notes :
Check with your kid if they are bullied /bully
Preach them moral values
If your kid is bullied:As him to fight
If your kid is bully:There is something wrong in your family as kids learn from parents
Teach your kids some self defence even if you kid is not interested it gives them courage
Find the real reason why they are not studying.Find is going wrong
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